#GirlChat Why Do Women Give Their Friends Less Chances Than They Give Men They're Dealing With?

Why do some women hold their friend to a higher standard than they hold their significant other ? Some women will allow a dude to get away with murder , cheating , disrespect , etc. But the moment they get into a disagreement with a friend or miss a birthday event that friend is cut off. It's very bias , some women see it as men are already presumed to be fuck ups and display out of pocket behavior and women are held to a higher standard especially in friendships vs intimate relationships.

So that's one reason why women will forgive a man over their friend because they expect the bullshit from a dude but can't get past an issue their having with a friend. In regards to most friendships they function with positive mindsets they don't require drama or chaos to work, your supposed to enjoy your friends , listen to each other and grow. But when an issue interrupts the normal flow of a friendship that's when things change and because some don't want to experience it they'll cut you off.

That is the problem some of us treat men like children like they don't know any better , and we'll hold our girlfriends to higher standard like they should be know better because usually your friends know what triggers you , etc. Another factor that comes into play with these types of situations is childhood traumas , often times when people grow up in households where toxic relationships were normalized they tend to grow up believing that real relationships and love have to have some kind of chaos and that's far from the truth

Everything considered , I understand why some of these situations occur most times however sisterhood is very important and sisters should be valued just as much if not more than these tired ass men keep the same energy you have when you forgive Tyrone for the 2,439 time.

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