Girl Chat; Does cheating define a person's love for you?

Everyone has their own definition of love and their own limits, all of us at some point or another have had discussions about what we would or wouldn't do to someone we love and for a lot of people myself included cheating was one of the "No-No's" most times when infidelity occurs in relationships the common statement is "if you really loved me , you wouldn't have cheated."

I agree with that to an extent cheating doesn't always negate your partner's love for you, there are certain exceptions however if your partner makes a habit of cheating on you that's not true love. True love is supposed to be solid once one person in the relationship steps out the solidity is tested.

I've always felt people who cheat excessively aren't truly satisfied with their partner and don't genuinely love their partner, because if you really were what's the point in cheating? The most common excuse is alcohol or not being able to resist temptation.

I feel people who do that are just solely in love with the idea of having that person around all the time because they know not many others would put up with their infidelities. Monogamous relationships may seem far fetched to some of us due to the psychological studies and evidence that show monogamy is not natural for human beings. This is probably why so many have branched off into polygamous relationships.