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Fuck Boys Vs Fuck Girls

  • A.Shanice
  • Sep 6, 2019
  • 3 min read

We've all come across f**k boys and f**k girls (sorry ladies we're not exempt) , the urban dictionary defines this term for males as an asshole boy who is into strictly sexual relationships; he will lead a girl on and let her down, then apologize only to turn around and do the same thing. And for females it is defined as a girl who acts like a fuckboy except she doesn't ask for nudes instead she strings them along and uses other guys for her own benefit when shes probably already dating other people. I agree with both definitions the only thing that differentiates the two is sex.

Yesterday I ran across a thread on Instagram describing the 7 different types of male and female toxic partners, starting with the males they listed the good guy; poor communication skills , does charitable work just for the sake of social media , guilt trippers, posts every accomplishment. The player; Always says the right thing , social media famous, phone always on silent or DND, has 5 women in love with him. The inconsistent guy; texts back late af, always has an amazing personality, interested but ends up ghosting you because of "life" , probably still entertaining his ex, 3 months later "hey hope all is well."

The no initiative guy calls and texts frequently but never plans anything , has to feel your vibe first before taking you out , more than likely has a girlfriend on the low , "you be playing." The insecure guy; Misogynistic , tries to give you outfit restrictions , starts fights every time you have plans , claims females are too friendly. The emotionally draining guy expressing your feelings always turns into an argument , loves emotional memes on social media, 100 is a response for everything. The Netflix and Chill guy; possibly on house arrest , never wants to plan anything outside of the house , always wants to hang out after 9.

Sadly , I've encountered all of those type of toxic partners most women have although they have different ways and personality one thing they have in common is they don't give a fuck , and they're showing you that your not the one , cause the one won't receive that kind of behavior. However , that is very much fuck boy behavior and it's not fair males have to learn accountability and how to be more vocal if you not feeling sis don't string her along , also if you have communication issues or some kind of trauma work them demons out realign yourself then try to date.

Not to be outdone the different types of toxic female partners were listed as The insecure girl; pressed about whose liking your pics and vice versa, automatically has static with every female around you, goes through your phone. The curve queen; Great personality very fun, barely replies to texts, always busy when you want to hang out, no one ever really know who they've dated, "we should link." The heartless girl; only hits you up at night , 200 unread texts , pops up with a new guy if things get rocky, emotional af but that's none of your business, acts like the homie when y'all go out. The pick me; Can make Alfredo 5 different ways, always judging other women, agrees with everything you say, homebody , "I don't know how y'all wear all that makeup." The head over heels girl; Loves the idea of love , always posting relationship goals , never completely single, ignores red flags, "my toxic trait is I love to hard." The user; knows a guy for everything , never waits in line for a function, always on vacation but doesn't show who she went with, "I hate broke niggas."

To be honest I resonate a lot with the curve queen, the heartless girl and the head over heels girl. I would say the curve queen and the heartless girl display fuck girl behavior they have communication issues when it comes to their emotions and resort to bad habits to cope with what they're feeling instead of facing it head on or being upfront about what it is that they truly want and will string a guy along which is also unfair.

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