Stop Breaking Your Own Heart By Exaggerating Your Place In People's Lives. #GirlChat

Do you often find yourself going out of your way for people whether it be your family, friends, or significant other and getting mad when they don't reciprocate the same? Well for starters no one asked you to go out of your way for these people although it's a nice gesture if your going to do something out of kindness don't always expect it in return from everyone you encounter.

Also it could be your not that much of a priority to that person as you thought you were. Over the weekend I came across a tweet a young lady posted stating " telling her you're not ready for a relationship but expecting her to give you relationship benefits is abuse. it's confusing, it's hurtful stop." I completely disagree with that if you ask someone to be exclusive and they give you the run around and you make the decision to stick around whatever follows is on you.

Why stay in a situation with a person you aren't on the same page with it's a set up for failure and heartache , no matter how much wifely duties you do it won't change his perception of you. Regardless of what your expectations with this person may be he already told you he wasn't looking for a relationship with you , if your okay with that arrangement than fine but if not you have to be the one to make the decision to leave.

Don't stick around and then cry victim later , ladies never settle for anything less than what you truly want, your fairy tale ending does exist somewhere out there :)

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